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Life after
Transition
Often After surgery
Immediately after surgery is when
your real life finally begins, unless your have had prior Ochiectomy
where things are clearer earlier.
It is as if all of your life
before surgery was just a long, bad, nightmare.
Post-surgery
is also when your real, second, female puberty begins due to
the removal of the testes (The main testosterone factory)
during Sex Reassignment Surgery where an Orchiectomy is
performed.
I am
told by a number of women who have had Sex Reassignment
Surgery (SRS) that their second puberty can last for at least 7 years.
Apart for the first year where your life tends to have a
priority of recovery and a high medical maintenance
procedure called Dilation.
Suddenly, after living in hell for all of your life before,
you begin to make plans for your real life, start looking
for a partner to share it with, and commence your real work
and career.
You can then apply for a passport, and other official
documentation, to be changed to reflect your true sex. As a
consequence of all this you can then marry, travel and live
in your true sex.
It isn't always a perfect
life, but nothing is perfect in life.
The common result is that you
find that now your body is in sync with your mind, that they
match, you are finally happy, but for some the part of life
that the hardest is to find a partner who will accept you
for your past.
Having this TS condition is a form of a litmus test, the
test the humanity of your new partner, for many they have
been brought up with beliefs that may not allow them to
accept your past, this can lead to depression for some.
The decision to remain stealthy is a hard one, but also to
wear your past on your sleeve is often unwarranted and would
often bring unwanted attention from the bigots around you.
When/if do you tell your new partner about your past, it is
a hard answer and can vary from person to person and partner
to partner.
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